Jul 12, 2014

Keeping Yourself Out From Gossiping

Hello there….. Guess I am in a good topic where all girls must freak with this. Let’s talk about how this gossip can help us to learn. Yea its just very curious to think even because it’s a bad hobbit. Permit me to show you the way to find the best even in the worst cases. Be positive all the time.
Think of an example;
Your neighbor won the 1st place from the cooking competition.  And you’re really jealousy with that but still you are gossiping and telling it about with others. In a way you do a good job. Why you’re a really promoting her success.
Look it’s very simple to see the good side of every single thing. But that will ha p pen the way we look at the matter.


Allow me to show you some directions to learn more from this; that means if you really addicted to gossips avoid these and be relaxed. Look below.
  1. Sort out negative gossip from the rest
  2. Ask yourself what the point of repeating the information is
  3. Figure out the problem behind the gossip
  4. Do something about the problem
  5. Give yourself a gossip specific time limit.
  6. Change the subject.



Let me finish this with grate advises quote;

“These are the few ways we can practice humility:
To speak as little as possible of one's self.
To mind one's own business.
Not to want to manage other people's affairs.
To avoid curiosity.
To accept contradictions and correction cheerfully.
To pass over the mistakes of others.
To accept insults and injuries.
To accept being slighted, forgotten and disliked.
To be kind and gentle even under provocation.
Never to stand on one's dignity.
To choose always the hardest.” 
 
Mother Teresa, The Joy in Loving: A Guide to Daily Living

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